I really don't think you should waste time judging whether or not you want to be in a relationship with someone based on the fun level. Not after the age of 25 lol. What's more, I think if you find the other person attractive, have enough in common, and you're comfortable being yourself around them, then you're set for at least the short term. If you drive each other, then you're definitely set for the long term. Quit over-thinking it. You have this person in addition to your other friends for fun.You're wasting time and missing out on what could turn out to be pure happiness in the future.
On a side note, fun is a two way street. Do your part.
I dunno... I do find myself pretty boring, but only when I'm under-stimulated. I can be pretty entertaining given the right company. That's just the type of person I am, though. I feed off other people's energy. If you act bored around me, I tend to be boring. But when you're having fun around me, I tend to feed off of that. Like I banter a lot, but that's hard to do when you're checking your text messages or staring at the wall blankly, waiting for me to perform some magic trick. Its part of the reason I killed my inner monologue lol. I say what I'm thinking, when I'm thinking it. It usually stirs something up.... so speak up.
Meh.. A feathered, ill-prepped pseudo rant. Please pull up to the second window.
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